It’s a mystery. Some people are just wired wrong. Others, they don’t get it. Me, it usually wasn’t my fault.
The experts, though, have a different opinion and because my degrees are in Russian and Business, I thought I’d peak into what they might be thinking. It boils down to ten different opinions on the subject (none of which included my opinions):
- How and Why We Lie to Ourselves: Cognitive Dissonance
- War, Peace and the Role of Power in Sherif’s Robbers Cave Experiment
- Our Dark Hearts: The Stanford Prison Experiment
- Just Following Orders? Stanley Milgram’s Obedience Experiment (This was the Nazi’s excuse)
- Why We All Stink as Intuitive Psychologists: The False Consensus Bias
- Why Groups and Prejudices Form So Easily: Social Identity Theory
- How to Avoid a Bad Bargain: Don’t Threaten
- Why We Don’t Help Others: Bystander Apathy (what most of my neighbors believe)
- I Can’t Believe My Eyes: Conforming to the Norm






















